As the year 2014 sets in and my growing 34 week pregnancy belly continues to grow, the reality of how another beautiful soul will soon join our family and turn our world upside down (for the better ofcourse). Something like we never expected before. Because as much as I would like to admit that I am always prepared for everything, it somehow always turns out that Im not.
I realised this morning when I was feeding Mango a bottle of milk. His eyes were closed, half asleep but just awake enough to drink down some milk, that this. This moment. This quiet peaceful one-on-one moment that we had every morning for the past 19 months will soon be gone. It wouldn't be Mama Bear and Mango anymore. There would be three of us or four if you want to include Papa Bear (except I'm sure he wont mind because he would rather me do the morning feeds). My sweet little baby, who kinda actually still is a baby. It was a bitter-sweet moment. I need to cherish every moment that I have with him in the last few weeks. Am I wrong by doing this? Will I spoil him rotten and when his little brother comes along he will feel that i am giving him less time? I want to cry in agony and smile at the same time. I don't know how to react.
I hope one day that my Mango will have the ability to understand the love I have for him. I hope one day he will grow into a man of his own and know that everyday that passes/passed till my very last breath I loved him more than the moment before...
I realised this morning when I was feeding Mango a bottle of milk. His eyes were closed, half asleep but just awake enough to drink down some milk, that this. This moment. This quiet peaceful one-on-one moment that we had every morning for the past 19 months will soon be gone. It wouldn't be Mama Bear and Mango anymore. There would be three of us or four if you want to include Papa Bear (except I'm sure he wont mind because he would rather me do the morning feeds). My sweet little baby, who kinda actually still is a baby. It was a bitter-sweet moment. I need to cherish every moment that I have with him in the last few weeks. Am I wrong by doing this? Will I spoil him rotten and when his little brother comes along he will feel that i am giving him less time? I want to cry in agony and smile at the same time. I don't know how to react.
I hope one day that my Mango will have the ability to understand the love I have for him. I hope one day he will grow into a man of his own and know that everyday that passes/passed till my very last breath I loved him more than the moment before...
